INSTRUCTION
Do the Questioning only for a few days before you move onto the Answers
Do the Questioning only for a few days before you move onto the Answers
Professionally it is imperative to know where you truly stand with others or where others are truly positioned, however in our personal lives it is sometimes difficult accepting the truth
Example :
Example
” You said that you have a daughter at home in London and her name is Roxanne”
”Yes”.
If the person replies with the correct name and in a relaxed and timely fashion – then you can consider the truth is being told, however if the person cannot remember the name or takes time to remember, then be concerned.
Using the right questions is key!
The truth will come out eventually even though you would like to know the answer right here and now – take your time.
We reiterate, that it is important to let the person speak and encourage them to speak with intervals of quietness giving them time to speak more. The more they speak the more information they provide.